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HERE IS MY STORY, WHAT’S YOURS?

A Memoir by Jules Apatini


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© 2025 Jules Apatini. All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, distributed, or transmitted without the author’s prior written permission, except for brief quotes in reviews or educational use.

Prologue: In Motion

The present hums like a restless metronome. My invention, the Smart Innovative Racquet Cover (SIR), rests on the table before me: a 3D-printed paddle cover that integrates a smartphone, transforming every swing into both physical exercise and cinematic entertainment. I observe as PingPod fills with spectators, as cameras converge upon the tables. In Marty Supreme, A24’s Christmas Day 2025 film, I found myself sharing a Manhattan Ping Pong Parlor set with Timothée Chalamet, holding the Hard Bat paddle once gifted to me by my esteemed friend, Marty Reisman. A cameo, undoubtedly, but also a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Each flashbulb today, every pitch for tomorrow, reverberates backward all the way to October 1956.


Preface: A Revolution Born from Simplicity and Passion

Once upon a time in a New York City ping pong parlor — the kind where legends play, dreams bounce, and sore losers become humble students — a thought sparked. What if a ping pong paddle could make you famous, fit, and a filmmaker all at once?

Thus, the Smart Innovative Exercise Racket Cover was born. It’s not just a racket. It’s your gym. Your tripod. Your personal trainer. Your creative sidekick. It’s what Tony Stark might design if he were into fitness instead of flying suits.


Part I: Budapest and the Escape

A City of Contradictions

I was eight years old. My sister, Andrea, was five. We resided at 40 Rákóczi út in Budapest, situated across from the Corvin Department Store. That afternoon, the street below transformed into a spectacle akin to a festival. Citizens chanted “Ruszkik haza!” (“Russians depart!”) and “Rabok legyünk vagy szabadok!” (“Be subjugated or be liberated!”), their voices rising like smoke.

From our balcony, Andrea and I perceived it as a heavenly realm. To us, it was a celebration. To my grandmother, it was peril. She ushered us indoors as night descended. The distant echoes of firecrackers were not actual firecrackers. Gunfire. The AVH, Hungary’s clandestine police force, unleashed fire upon a crowd of students at the Radio Building.

In days, tanks rolled past our home. A shell tore through my bedroom wall, tilting the floor at a jagged angle. An unexploded bomb wedged in our living room. My grandfather, Dr. Iván Apatini, a respected physician, carried it out himself with his surgical tools, while the bomb squad hesitated. To me, he was the biggest hero of all time.

The Path of Destiny

When hope of resistance collapsed, our family fled: trains, then winter hikes through snow and barbed wire under tracer fire. At one farmhouse crossroads, my father hesitated between two paths. I pointed to the nearer light. He listened. Later, we learned the farther path led to a Soviet checkpoint. My first decision saved us.

Austria was safety without certainty. Paul Apatini, my uncle, and his college friend Peter Bogar secured U.S. visas from Vienna and reached New Orleans before us. For my parents, Andrea, and me, destiny lay further south: Rome.


Part II: New World, New Rhythms

Rome in Color

Rome was the shift from black-and-white to color. Under the Italian Red Cross, I survived a grand mal seizure that nearly ended me. Nurses in white became saints. My father, Gyula—singer, table-tennis coach, polyglot—found stages again, befriending a young Domenico Modugno. He told him Volare and Piove were festival and to be world famous material. That is exactly what happened.

We lived two and a half years in Rome. Then came Genoa, where we boarded the Saturnia. At sea, days blurred until, finally, the Statue of Liberty rose into view. A symbol, yes, but to me, an eight-year-old boy, it was the face of freedom itself.

But not all of us arrived together. My father had fallen ill in Rome, influenza leaving a spot on his lungs. He was sent to Denver for a year of hospital care before rejoining us. My mother, Andrea, and I pressed forward alone, welcomed at the harbor by Uncle Paul. After a short stay in New Orleans, we rode north to Yorkville, settling on East 81st Street among thousands of Hungarian émigrés.

Andrea and I were enrolled in St. Stephen of Hungary School on East 82nd Street. Nuns who taught us carried the same stern grace as the Red Cross sisters who had saved me in Rome. It was here that music took root. Glenn Miller’s “Moonlight Serenade” became my favorite American Big Band song—a melody that stitched the past to the future.

The Bridge of Culture

By the early ’60s, New York was rhythm and reinvention. In Yorkville basements, Andrea and I joined the first lineup of a family rock band: Andrea and me, Bob and Carol Chaky, and their cousins Alice Siska and Denis Varady. Later, with reshuffles, came Eddie Geugen on guitar.

At the same time, we stepped into folk dance. The Hungarian Rhapsody ensemble, with Andrea, Carol, and me at its lead singer, carried tradition onto stages, even at the 1965 World’s Fair.

Our father, meanwhile, founded Hungaria Radio in 1966—a weekend broadcast that carried Hungarian music, gypsy violins, and American standards into the homes of émigrés. Beyond broadcasting, he coached table tennis, leaned on his architectural training, and helped over a thousand asylum seekers find work. His polyglot talent—eight languages sung, four spoken fluently—made him a lifeline.

This was cultural survival: rock riffs, folk dances, radio waves, and ping-pong rallies.


Part III: The Thread of Invention

Shadows and Spotlights

The band, later called The Fugitives, grew louder. Gigs at Columbia fraternities, Village clubs, Catskills resorts. The thrill of sound, the promise of America.

But shadows trailed us. Radio Free Europe still haunted our ears. Every broadcast about Hungary reminded us of the West’s betrayal in 1956, when aid never came. The Suez Canal consumed their focus, leaving Hungarians to be slaughtered. That wound bled into every lyric I wrote, every note I played.

Media Seeds

By the late ’70s and ’80s, I had one foot in music, another in media. Manhattan Neighborhood Network cable shows, collaborations with Bernice Perry, filming Sinatra’s 80th at the Waldorf. The immigrant boy who once heard “Moonlight Serenade” in Budapest was now holding cameras, shaping narrative.

Rhythm and Reinvention

My daughter Lisa Anne Apatini was born in 1984. Her voice would later fill studios and stages from New York to Budapest. She sang at Gracie Mansion, appeared on DUNA TV, and carried forward the family’s performance thread. Guitar became her instrument, just as piano had been mine.

Meanwhile, invention stirred again. The paddle-camera concept matured in sketches, then prototypes. Decades of music, dance, and table tennis converged in design.

The Breakthrough

In 2019, the U.S. Patent Office granted me Patent No. 10,166,447: a Progressive Weighted Aerobic Ping-Pong Exercise Racquet. The invention—reborn as SIR—fused everything: cardio, filming, analysis. Paired with the Aerobic SDM app, it became more than equipment. It was choreography in your hand.


Part IV: Crescendo

Toward the World Stage

SIR entered gyms, basements, and rehab centers. It was seen in videos at PingPod, imagined for MLTT halftime shows. The device became a bridge—grandparents shadow-swinging, athletes training, dancers merging rhythm with rally and dance moves to music, and most importantly, shadow practice for aerobic fitness, exercises set to music.

The invention was no longer mine alone. It belonged to everyone who picked it up.

A Life in Motion

From radio waves in Budapest basements to racquet swings on world stages, my life has been motion itself.

Freedom’s first taste came in 1956, when I saw tanks roll past my home and made a child’s decision that saved us. Music gave it rhythm. Radio carried it forward. Table tennis gave it shape. Invention gave it permanence.

Now, in Marty Supreme, my paddle—Marty Reisman’s gift—flickers under movie lights. In the Smart Innovative Racquet, the future waits in every swing.

It is all one motion: survival into service, memory into invention, past into present.


Epilogue

I began this book to preserve the story of a boy who outran tanks and grew up to put a camera in a paddle. But it is more than my story. It is my family’s, my father’s, my daughter’s, and I hope, yours.

History repeats in spirals. 1956 foreshadowed Prague ’68, Gdańsk ’80, Berlin ’89, and Ukraine today. Yet one truth endures: freedom is fragile, and worth every fight.

The racquet is only a doorway. The destination is connection.

If you’ve read this far, you are part of it!


About the Author

A Budapest Childhood and Escape: A Story in Photos

My story unfolds in Hungary, before the flames of the 1956 revolution engulfed the nation. Born on June 5th, 1948, my earliest memories are pieced together from a cherished photo archive – the sole visual record of a life upended.

Our entire Apatini family resided in a grand apartment on Rakoczi ut 40, Budapest. Gazing from the balcony of our spacious home, the Corvin Department Store, a Hungarian Macy’s, dominated the view across the street. These were peaceful times, though overshadowed by a health challenge I’ve grappled with since birth – epilepsy. Medication, even at 76, remains a constant companion.

The revolution severed this idyllic existence. The trauma of escaping Hungary at eight, amidst the chaos, triggered a grand mal seizure in Rome, Italy. This harrowing experience is chronicled in my online story, “The 1956 Hungarian Revolution As Seen Through The Eyes Of An Eight Year Old.”

Beyond these personal recollections, my photo archive serves as a bridge to the past. It’s a visual timeline, documenting the pivotal events that shaped our family’s odyssey.

Many assume my last name, Apatini, signifies Italian heritage. The truth is far more captivating. It traces back to my grandfather, a revered Budapest physician originally named Taler. During World War II, he defied the rising tide of hatred by marrying a Jewish woman. Living and practicing Doctor in Apatin, a small town in Hungary he added the letter I adopted the town’s name as his own when the Nazis threatened to take his wife. This act of love and defiance became our family’s legacy.

The Apatini family, lived in our spacious Budapest apartment. One, in particular, features my childhood hero – a young boy proudly clutching a bomb unearthed from the revolution’s debris, a souvenir the bomb squad refused to touch.

The archive extends beyond my immediate family, preserving images of even my great-grandparents, though their names remain a mystery, a whisper from the past.

Following this Hungarian chapter, my story ventures to New York City, where I embarked on a new life after escaping the revolution. This is where I’ll continue my narrative, detailing the experiences that shaped me in the vibrant tapestry of America.

Jules Apatini is a table tennis innovator, wellness advocate, and multimedia pioneer. From the streets of NYC to international courts, his mission is simple: move more, smile more, and film it all.


BONUS: The SIR Social Challenge

Post your first SIR video and tag it with #SwingWithJules

  • Funniest clip? Wins a signed SIR prototype.
  • Best trick shot? Feature on our channel.
  • Cutest grandparent using it? Bragging rights for life.

 

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